All Gave Some: Honoring the Living Legacy of Service
November 10, 2025By: Kyle Irvin
Support Center, Ethos Veterinary Health
“All gave some, some gave all.”
— Howard William Osterkamp, Sergeant, U.S. Army, Korea 1950–1953
This quote is often associated with Memorial Day, a time to honor those who gave everything in service to our country. But its first half — “All gave some” — speaks directly to the heart of Veterans Day.
Veterans Day is not about those who died in service. It’s about those who lived — and who continue to live with the impact of their service. It’s about the men and women who signed a blank check to their country, knowing full well that it might cost them their time, their health, their peace, their relationships, or their lives. Whether they deployed or not, whether they served in combat or support roles, every veteran gave something of themselves. Sometimes that sacrifice is visible — a scar, a limp, a folded flag. Often, it’s not — missed birthdays, strained marriages, sleepless nights, or the quiet weight of memories carried alone.
Veterans Day is a chance to recognize that sacrifice — not just with a flag or a post, but with genuine connection.
Too often, “Thank you for your service” becomes a reflex, a polite phrase offered without pause. While it’s always appreciated, it can sometimes feel like a script — something said out of obligation rather than emotion. If you truly want to honor a veteran this Veterans Day, consider making your gratitude personal.
Look them in the eye. Speak with sincerity. Let your words carry weight and speak from the heart.
For example:
- “I appreciate your service to this country.”
- “My family is grateful for what you gave us.”
- “Your sacrifice means more than I can express.”
These small changes can make a big difference. They remind veterans that their service is seen, felt, and valued — not just as a concept, but as a lived experience that shaped who they are.
This year, Veterans Day carries extra meaning. It marks the 250th anniversary of America and the 250th birthday of my beloved United States Marine Corps. I’ll be spending it in Las Vegas with my band of brothers from the Dallas Stars Warrior Hockey, a disabled veteran hockey program that’s been a lifeline for many of us.
We’ve been through a lot together — good and bad, strong and weak. The opportunity to step onto the ice and compete with fellow veterans helps us relive the esprit de corps we remember from our time in uniform. But more than that, it gives us a space to continue the brotherhood, the tradition, and the camaraderie in the locker room — sharing, venting, and remembering not only our lives as military members, but also helping each other live better lives as men and women. We do it in honor of those no longer with us, and in support of those still fighting battles we may not see.
Veterans Day is more than a date on the calendar. It’s a moment to honor the living legacy of service — not just with words, but with actions and presence.
Let’s make it count.
Canada and Around the World
While November 11 is recognized in the United States as Veterans Day — honoring all who served — it is also observed in Canada as Remembrance Day, a solemn occasion more akin to America’s Memorial Day. Canadians pause to honor those who died in military service, reflecting on the cost of freedom and the legacy of sacrifice.
Across Canada, people wear red poppies on their lapels, inspired by the World War I poem In Flanders Fields. These poppies serve as a visual tribute to fallen soldiers and are often accompanied by moments of silence, ceremonies at war memorials, and the recitation of remembrance pledges. Schools, communities, and veterans’ organizations come together to ensure that the memory of those who served — and especially those who gave their lives — is never forgotten.
One of the driving forces behind this tradition is the Royal Canadian Legion, one of Canada’s largest veteran support and community organizations. They organize the national Remembrance Day ceremony and lead the annual Poppy Campaign, which raises funds to support veterans and their families through programs, services, and advocacy.
Both countries chose November 11 because it marks the anniversary of the Armistice of 1918, which ended World War I. At the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month, the guns fell silent across Europe — a moment that became symbolic of peace and remembrance.
Other nations also observe this date. The United Kingdom and many Commonwealth countries hold Armistice Day or Remembrance Day ceremonies, while France and Belgium commemorate Armistice de la Première Guerre mondiale. Though the names and customs vary, the spirit of honoring those who served — and especially those who fell — unites these nations in reflection.
A Closing Note
Of course, there are many ways we celebrate Veterans Day or Remembrance Day. Some of us take full advantage of the free meals, discounts, and coupons offered by generous businesses — and let’s be honest, we’ve earned that Bloomin’ Onion and bottomless pancakes! But beyond the perks, there are powerful ways to connect with the veteran community and continue the mission of service and support.
Whether you’re lacing up your skates, your boots, or just reaching out to a friend, remember: November 11th is about honoring military service — those who gave our countries whatever was needed of them.
Two organizations I personally work with and want to highlight this year are:
Irreverent Warriors
Irreverent Warriors brings veterans together through humor and camaraderie to improve mental health and prevent suicide. Their signature Silkies Hikes — lighthearted, non-athletic rucks through cities — are designed to break down barriers and foster connection. These events help veterans rediscover joy, build lasting friendships, and find healing through shared experience. They also host BBQs, river floats, and other inclusive events across the country. If you’re a veteran looking to reconnect or a civilian who wants to support, check them out!
One Tribe Foundation (formerly 22KILL)
One Tribe Foundation is dedicated to combating suicide and promoting mental wellness among veterans, first responders, law enforcement officers, and their families. Born from the viral #22PushUpChallenge, their mission has grown to include both traditional and non-traditional therapies — from counseling and peer support to outdoor adventures and community engagement. They remind us that healing is possible, and that purpose and connection are powerful antidotes to isolation.
